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My 2 precious precious & me

my baobei & me

hubby help me take this photo (see my hair is getting longer everyday i dun really the length cos i can feel the weight of the hair WISH to CHOP IT OFF SOON)

The hot weather is coming back again..I really cannot stand anymore now even doing housechores also will sweat lol..This type of weather is good to wash clothes in the morning and hang it out and dry at night u can keep the clothes in and fold..Sometime also very funny in the late afternoon,thunder roar first and after that rain will start to pour ..Weather very strange nowadays people start to get sick easily...My 2 precious had just recovered from their sick too..This month was not really good in anyway luckily another 5 more days here COME OUR MAY and hope will be a better ones...

P.S..Do remember to drink more water and avoid fried food at this moment..If u dun want a hoarse sound when u wake up the next day :)

** The photo above is taken today while hubby and i was watching 红星大奖 and at the meantime taking photo when the show is gonna to end..I feel quite boring for this year 红星大奖 cos Zoe Tay and Li Nanxing never attend and this is not the main reason lol ...

Will try to updated more in the next post cos i feel sleepy and tired now..Sarah is going to school tomorrow had been absent on and off for this couple of week..


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thank you in advanced
Have a great day :)

Happy 16 mth to my precious mikkiel

Time really flies very fast,my precious is areadi 16mth and 1 day...He loves to watch baby first channel and yoyo channel when i was doing housechores..He love walking here and there when i let him out from playpen of i have headache when he is outside cos he will bring everything to me or put things in his mouth..Btw he is a crayon shin fans he love to watch till he sleep ..

Dearest bb 27th BIRTHDAY...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY DEAREST HUBBY : )
The Card i get it from my hubby
and deco it myself..

Wow the weather is so damn hot imagine now is 12 plus midnight,i having headache and fever from saturday tiil now..(hope the sweat can make me feel better) Actually dun intend to come here and updated but than today is hubby's birthday so die die also need to give hubby a post cos everyone is important to me sure have a personal post from me...11 plus get out of my bedroom and tell hubby to help me coax sarah and mikkiel to sleep i going out to use the com and sneaky take the card i get from him and deco the card and of cos write so secret secret to him..(our secret can)...Every year sure have a cake no matter how so later evening will be getting hubby a small cake..Poor hubby had to go work ever thought is his birthday cos he wanna to earn more money to settle the bills and our debts too ...Is also my wishes too..Will be cooking some hubby's favourite food for him and he came back can eat liao lol...I buay tahan liao going to get a cool bath before my sleep..

Last but not least HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU MY DEAREST BB.....may his wishes can come true...:)

when can i have a financial independent...

What a saturday to me...I will updated when i have a better mood..

This is what i have to do every month,wash the toys clean the toys and sun tan the toys..
lian 玩具多好命!!

Exes in Dreams

Exes in Dreams

Why they still haunt us

by Cortney Litwin

Dreams of a former lover or husband are some of the most common dreams we receive from readers. Usually one of two feelings arises from such dreams. Either the dreamer wonders why they're dreaming of a past relationship when they no longer love that person, or the dreamer is hoping to get back together with their ex. Either way, the dreams usually point to some unresolved feelings connected to the past relationship -- or break-up -- that can hinder them from moving on to a new relationship. The following dreams illustrate vividly why ex-flames come back to haunt us.

Sandra's harrowing elevator ride reveals a relationship fear connected to her ex:

I dream that I'm with a married couple I'm not close to. They are urging me to attend a private cocktail event with them. I attend the event reluctantly because it's on the penthouse of a 300-floor building, and I'm terrified of the elevator ride. Both the elevator ride up to the 300th floor, and the ride back down and after the event, are terrifying. As we leave the building, a group of other guests arrive for another black tie event. My ex is among them. He approaches the couple I'm with to greet them, ignoring me at first. As he's about to leave, he nods in my direction. To make him feel guilty for ignoring me, I give him a disapproving look that says, "I know you aren't better than that." Upon which, he walks towards me, shakes my hand, kisses me on the cheek and asks me how I am.

In the next scene, I'm sitting among a group of women. One is holding a child and telling us how her man -- who happens to be my ex -- has changed. He is no longer flirting and dating around, but is committed to her. She continues that he is a new man, an honest man, a man ready for a lasting commitment. I look at her with pity, telling her that someone like him will never change. Eventually I lead her and her baby to him, on the stairs of the building (from the beginning of the dream), knowing he's marrying her because they have a child together. And knowing that is the only reason he is committing to her.

Sandra is exploring her attitudes and concerns about marriage, as symbolized by the married couple who beckon her to the private cocktail event. And . . . what's the ultimate private cocktail event for many of us? A wedding, of course! Which brings us to the harrowing elevator ride. It symbolizes the emotional ups and downs Sandra experienced with her ex. Three-hundred floors? That's a steep climb, followed by an equally steep drop. What she's really terrified of is the emotional turbulence that accompanies a relationship. She might ask herself if this fear is stopping her from opening her heart to a new partner.

As for the ex's rudeness, I wonder if he ignored Sandra's feelings when they were together. The guilt trip might have been her way of making him pay attention to her, or to make him feel bad for his neglect. The woman with the baby is the "what if" scenario that Sandra might have found herself in if she'd stayed with him. Not the kind of forced commitment she'd want, certainly. She needs a man who offers his heart freely without having to be "guilted" into it.

So why is Sandra still dreaming of her ex? She probably needs to forgive him for his behavior toward her, and forgive herself for choosing him as a partner. Then she'll be free to move on to a healthier relationship.

Sexy dreams about Bethany's ex are interfering with her current relationship:

I keep having intimate dreams about my ex-boyfriend, who I think I still have strong feelings for. I haven't had any closure from him since he broke up with me four years ago. I don't feel any spark between me and my current guy, who I have a child with. Do you think my feelings for my ex are interfering with my current relationship?

In a word, yes. Unless there's closure with the past, it's difficult to connect deeply with someone new. The recurring dreams reveal the sexual attraction Bethany still has toward her former flame, which are hindering her current relationship. The dreams also suggest another problem: the lack of sexual connection with her current partner, which may not reach its full potential unless she lets go of her ex. If the chemistry just isn't happening with her current guy, even through she's released her ex, at least Bethany will be free from the past to meet someone new, if that's what she chooses to do.

Sanja has trouble hearing the messages offered in this dream about her ex:

I dream I'm at the restaurant where I work as a waitress. I'm dining with two girlfriends. My ex-lover shows up -- in my face -- kissing the girl that I think he replaced me with. I don't know what to do or where to look; I'm extremely uncomfortable. My friends and I leave restaurant and get into a car. I receive two text messages from my ex. I can't read the second one because I wake up, but the first one says something like . . . Well, I can't recall exactly, but I do remember feeling excited because he is contacting me; it doesn't matter what he is saying. I tell the bartender about the text message, and he laughs it off, saying that is how a man tries to put the blame on you. I feel like my ex thinks I'm trying to trap him or something.

Sanja didn't think what her ex said was important? What is she not paying attention to when it comes to men? In reality, she probably missed a lot of clues about her ex, like how he treats women or whether he was really ready for a commitment. If Sanja looks back on her relationship honestly, she'll undoubtedly see the truths that were in her face (as she put it), but which she ignored. The bartender offered some wisdom when he told her the meaning of the text messages. He played the role of her inner voice, the intuitive part of her that sees the truth. If Sanja pays closer attention to what her inner voice is telling her, she'll have an easier time attracting a guy who will treat her well.

It's all about acknowledging the lesson, letting go and moving on. If you frequently have dreams about ex-flames, perhaps it's time to do some soul-searching about releasing the resentment, anger, longing or even the love that is keeping you from moving forward.

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Finally i really to blog,cos last few days my eye was with ba zhen and i have to look after sarah cos when she came back from my parent's house her cough still not well yet and baobei only cough at night and bring her to see doctor and sinseh but than the medicine doesn't work at her at all...But luckily both of us get rid of the bug out of our body and sarah is going to school tomorrow i think she miss the school cos she keep asking me why she was not bring to school and i tell her when she get well i will bring her to school i doesn't want her to spread the germ to her friends..We must think of others and i ask her do u understand what mummy say she replied :" i understand mummy"

the compare of my both photo:left is taken on saturday i am still having ba zhen on my eye and the right is the normal me..(Do see the different)

Feel like chopping off my hair but dun know what hairstyle should i wanna to try?i am sick with long hair but my face doesn't suit short hair at all lol....

The next post will upload sarah & mikkiel photo cos my hp is inside my bedroom and they are sleeping very soundly doesn't want to wake them up...Today the weather is so good and cool i can't wait to go my dreamland..GD nite everyone :)

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Sarah over due photo ( taken on the day my parent came)

mikkiel is down with diahorrea

see (dun see too much handsome guy) or else ur eye will be the same like me..just joking

This few weeks is not my day.Today wanted to bring mikkiel to clinic cos he having diahorrea but than who know when i was out of the lift the rain pours just like that...So i decided to sit down with mikkiel in the pram,although he doesn't feel well he is still very active...Decided to bring him back and wait for the rain to stop,was grumbling with friends about it and thank for their concern about my eye..Didn't know ba zhen will get spread and now my 2 eyes is having ba zhen...Pain and i cannot open my eyes too long cos the weight of the ba zhen in my eyelids...

Mikkiel now is taking his nap and hopefully he can get better cos i can see his lip is to dry due to the diahorrea he has..He drink alot of water cos diahorrea will cos dehydration..When children get sick i really dun mind to used up my energy just hope they can get well soon..Mikkiel is growing 2 teeth at one times and teething will also cos diahorrea due to the myths..He just recoverd with his cough and running nose and now he has to be suffer from awhile due to his teething..Hope he can get well soon and miss sarah as usual she coming back this sunday ...

Bill ,debt and expenses $$$$$$$ stress stress,when can i stop worry this every month..

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Our Trip to polyclinic

while waiting the right time to polyclinic so take photo as usualfinally can capture mikkiel face ..

both of them doesn't look like sick rightmikkiel is playing and showing everything he know to a young lady..walking like nobody business,no freedom liao mummy put me back inside the pramwhile waiting for our turn,sarah poselove to see them with same pattern...they were looking @ the "food chart" while waiting for their turn..

Feeling very awake now cannot get to sleep...This few days i unable to sleep early due to taking care of mikkiel at night and sarah in the morning cos both of them have different timing in their sleeping time..Both of them doesn't feel well since last week...When they fall sick,i will have check their temperature every 4 hours cos just prevent they have fever in middle of the night and noone knows..Brought them to clinic last sunday completed the medicine and like not effective at all...I can see they are recovering soon cos yesterday brought them to polyclinic to see doctor and give them medicine on time and they are getting better lesser cough and phlegm coming out from their nose...

Today evening my parent came and brought sarah back cos mummy is on holiday and i thought off going back with them but than scared mikkiel not used to my mummy place and he is not feeling well too..He is having on and off fever due to teething but he is still active,appetite still very good...Hopefully he can completely get well soon...Tomorrow had to tidy up the whole house before sarah back from mummy house...I have many things to clear and give away..Got to wake hubby up and start my lala land...Gd nite everyone :)

Happy April Fool Day & Advanced Happy good friday!!

I'm here to wish everyone a
Happy April Fool Day &
a advanced

We will be having along weekend with hubby,sarah & mikkiel but hubby had to go work on saturday (O.T)...hubby is also fall sick went to see doctor yesterday today went to work so he totally never take his medicine at all and today he is getting more worse...Hope he can get well soon cos is very hard to go work with sick on him...