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Gd afternoon,the weather is cool now really to go jurong point (again) when hubby wake up wonder what time will he wake up lol so later i am going to take my beauty nap too...This few weeks went for some interview but this is my first time to fill in the application different cos from single to married and unfortunately i cannot find a suitable job or they rejected me cos i am a mother of 2 and cos they think very troublesome to hire me cos i have two children one is a baby and one is a toddler even i tell them i have a helper at home to help me look after them but they still don't want me...(i have a intention to fill my marital status to single but i just dun like to hide)and some company never provided childcare leave, now than i realised some of the company prefer man to woman lo...cos they dun need to give 4 month maternity leave and woman take more leaves than man...

So this tuesday onward i will start to look after sarah and mikkiel my own...looking after children is not easy...I have to do housework,cooking,mantain house neat and clean and etc..................yup give me 24 hours also not enough dun even know i have time to be here to updated anot...i cannot chat with friend too long cannot do wat i wan cannot go out with friend as i like anymore*sigh* i have to go to my bed to take a rest cos yesterday 2 am sleep wake up at 8 plus to cook for lunch and dinner...I am to exhausted and tired..i think i can be panda friend if i continue like this..BYebye will updated more detail when i have more TIME...

Just wanna to share

The Seven Commandments for a Happy Marriage

Although there is no secret recipe for a happily ever after, there are some rules which can give your marriage a fighting chance at success, so listed below are seven, simple, yet effective points that can help strengthen your marriage;

1. Pride goes before a fall - Just as the age-old adage goes, where your relationship is concerned you should put aside your pride and instead, focus on solving the problem in an unbiased way. Marriage is not about who is right or wrong, it's not a competition, its more important than that, and very often we tend to overlook its significance by getting side tracked by inconsequential matters.
2. Make up before the day ends - Constructive fighting is good for any relationship, as it helps your relationship grow and clarify differences. However, it is important not to go to bed before making up. By delaying resolving the problem, all you are doing is causing the resentment to fester and get worse, therefore, no matter how angry you may be, make the effort to solve the problem before either of you hit the sack.
3. Say you are sorry when you are wrong - If you are in the wrong, swallow that pride and admit it, no good will come about if you don’t. Be mature and show your partner that even though you are mad, embarrassed and filled to the brim with pride, you are still willing to put all that aside to make the relationship work.
4. Talk, share and get connected - Remember how you used to tell your partner everything that went on in your life? Well, don’t stop. By sharing your thoughts, experiences and feelings with each other, you are building a bond between yourselves. The key to a successful marriage is a strong friendship, so go head and be friends again.
5. If it's going to hurt, bite your tongue - If what you are going to say will cause unnecessary hurt, just bite your tongue. Constructive criticism is good, but destructive criticism which is fuelled by spite and pettiness will just erode your relationship and causes more harm than good, so ask yourself, what your objective is before you utter those spiteful words.
6. Save the criticism for when you get home - Suppress your desire to lash out at your partner in public or to others. Show him / her, the respect they deserve by saving the tongue lashing for when you get home. Airing your dirty laundry to others would result in your partner losing face. Remember your vows, to 'cherish each other for better or for worse', well remember them whenever you are filled with desire to rant.
7. Have a little love - Having sex frequently releases endorphins, burns calories and reduces stress. It also helps you to get closer to each other. So make the time for a quick romp or if time is really a constraint, then some heavy petting would also suffice. :)

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Good morning the weather is changing just now is raining very heavily cos i am intend to go out to buy newspaper but too bad so switch on my computer again..Today HOUSEWIFE me not going to cook not in a gd mood,slyvia is cooking so i free to be here and blog..yup my mood is not good i am not happy and very disappointed YES is very DISAPPOINTED.All is my fault cos i always very soft heartened and the stupid thinking loi alway think of people but never think of myself ..... i really dun like the life i have now i don't know what i want instead but I am treat VERY UNFAIRLY why WHY WHY..I not going to be like those HOUSEWIFE staying @ home and just do their housework and look after children i want to be a MODERN HOUSEWIFE ok dun alway think housewife is nice to be bully....DUN tell me to endure anything i not happy i won't due to my character so always people take for granted BUT doesn't mean u can climb on top of my head to put fire...I agree how a parent is and the up bringing of children end up the children act the same as the parent..LISTEN If u are just having relationship and u are areadi not good term with the parent think CAREFULLY ok..i simply tired of this type of life YES people changed very fast and cos my bringing up is not like this and i never ever met this type of people in my life BEFORE yup got once sure twice de,i am always the one who forgive and gives chance...Nobody appreciate Yup I AM SIMPLY TIRED YES indeed I AM..Don't ever ask me what happen cos after today i am not going to be like this anymore...I will know how to enjoy my life with the one who i think is important...DUN BLAME PEOPLE and THINK HOW U TREAT PEOPLE THAN COME AND USE UR FINGER TO PIN POINT OF ME..I am really very regret to choose this life myself...SELFISH people will only think what they want in their life and what they done never think of how they treat people and just say want to be happy...I Am too naive really YUP ALL becuase of my THINKING...i dun want to continues my life to be like this anymore cos how long this post is it only make me ANGRY and FEEL SAD FOR MYSELF... i always thought i only can watch drama than have this type of story and i am wrong cos how the actor and actoress act that mean that is this sort of people here...MY life is becoming more and more like those drama but not those channel 8 one is those taiwan drama u know those types aunties alway like to watch..DUn need to pity me cos i will be better no more people can affect my life anymore...NO i have enough really thanks those who really care for me the calls and comes down to my place to lent me their listening ears i am very grateful but this is the really last time i gonna to make myself clear nothing can affect me anymore what i done i will accept but i will not let those who wanna to hurt me to hurt me easily ANYMORE Chnaces is to treasure not to say and forget everything and repeat the mistake anymore...KARMA will come so i will not stupid to treat people like how they treat me and just think and reflect urself ... 8 YEARS 8 YEARS the previous years when i always recall those things that how people treat me the tear was just dropped but now is numb i will still cry to let me relieved myself that those stress and problem i have..I WILL BE BETTER AND I WILL BE STRONGER I NOT GOING TO HAVE THE LIFE I USED TO BE REPEAT again and again..God please i am too tired of this type of life can u pls listen to my prayers and get back to me can...I have dun know what decision i am making but i will not make myself suffer anymore longer cos i dun think is worth it anymore...some picture to brighten up my days my precious and my baobei and the me with bang

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WOO is going to rain soon, so later i will take my beauty sleep after my bath later on cos i always sleep late and wake up around 8 to 9 plus...A few day ago read the strait times and one of the article publish a survey and HOUSEWIFE can earn $50,000 per year but some of the housewife gave up the good career and good pay and stay at home do houseworks,look after baby and cook for the family...Dun ever look down on HOUSEWIFE and sometime people mixed up with HOUSEWIFE and TAITAI...Housewife has to stay at home and no such thing as public hoilday or off day and Taitai can go out anytime,anywhere but housewife can't...I count myself if i go out and work i think one year estimated i can earn about $1500 x 12 calculate urself cos i dun have a calculator beside me...

Just finish my lunch,wow i ate so full and share a few fruit tarts with sarah...I thought i am on diet but today what i cook and what i ate gain about 2 kg lo..xian half never tomorrow than on diet lo..yup i alway like this come to diet but monday went to boon lay shopping centre to duplicate key for the tenant with hubby and saw a weighting machine so step at the paper out guess how much i weight 58.3kg and the machine give me a lucky number is 4088 but after never strike but i shed 10 kg in 2 months plus how i calculate cos mikkiel now is 2 month plus areadi so i start my on diet plan around january so i never waste my money and i shed 10 kg i spent $90 plus to see doctor and medicine so it worth it la cos some of my friend spent thousand dollar for slimming down..i hope i can too but HOUSEWIFE must save save save..Do u all see the shop n save advertisement "shen shen SHEN" heeheeheee...Where have cheap and good things please share with me ok ANYTHING.I think i should set up a housewife forum and housewife gathering hahahaha (can share receipes and more more more lol)...I heard before mother forum and mother gathering lol...xian half lol. see i still fat after i shed 10 kg...
but compared the photo above is better la

i gain 18 kg in my second pregnancy and i gain 20 kg in my first pregnancy i take 4 to 5 month to become

like this and this photo taken after my first pregnancy
This photo taken on chinese new year 2008

Tuesday stay at home and rot...Wednesday, wendy come my house in the afternoon,morning cook lunch and ask her to come and eat intend to go bugis but too lazy so we go JP again lol...we go kiddy palace and see see walk walk and go walk around..ABout 5 plus wendy treat me eat sushi and we tabao go to a void deck eat and take a few puff and chat until 7 plus accompany her tabao dinner for her hubby and we take bus 198 home...Home sweet home play with mikkiel and pat sarah to sleep....Thursday afternoon went to cut my hair and fringe,was alot of people as usual and wait wait and wait hubby and botak come and still i waiting and than hubby wash hair first follow by me cut my hair and do treatment lol i taken a picture of that machine cos it so cute and the two man keep laughing and say my head got alot of smoke hahahaha...After making payment botak go home and hubby and i went to buy mikkiel milk powder and sarah pampers lo...This time round no cab home we take bus home instead (i wanna save money)..
Oh saw the calendar TODAY is Friday the 13th lol oh until afternoon than i realised i think i better dun go out...stay at home to rot and see what i can do and spent the day at home..But i areadi spent half day cooking and do some housechores...I going to have nice and cool bath cos i think i am stink and oily now...BYEBYEBYE Hope everyone plus me have a nice weekend.....

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Finally can sit down and relax...Oh it been a years i had never touch of this account cos i blog somewhere else cos i think i dun need some many account for blogging...How many happening things will i have in one day....*laugh* Only one of my sissy know this blog address and do hope less people know as possible cos i gonna write everything little secret here...*sound interesting* I always by pass people blog and read and saw they put alot of effort to make their blog very nice and their lifestories is so tempting me to always go to read when i free...I hope one day i also can la but i just want a simple one will do at least now i can find a background that i like and was my favourite colour and regarding about music...

Why my header title is call @ temporary housewife. Perhaps i am a housewife now but is temporary cos i a mummy of 2 children * see the right hand corner the picture of my lovable children* and the header of the picture is all me...I had been named housewife for 2 years plus i wanted to change this job can...i wanted to be mommy of two kid but not a housewife..2 years of this life is quite happening sometime when i can find a very effective ways to finsh my housework fast than i can sit down infront of the computer,and msn ,listening to music and while surf net...My time is very PRECIOUS can...I love music and singing..of cos chatting with my sissy and friends and some gossiping..Understandable la which woman dun like this...

My life is same as everybody from a 0 month to 4 years old start to go nursery 7 years old every year papa will buy me a bag and here i start to go primary school 12 years old take my PSLE and was posted to Normal technical and 13 years old study 4 years of secondary school life cum puppy loves starts and here rebellion of me starts too..Friends and cigarettes start to be part of my life and without teacher help i think i will not go to ITE but unfortunately never graduated..8 month was waste and take a half year cert...Off i go to workforce ,change alot of job and gain alot of experience, met a lot different type of people,was hook to something i shouldn't have and life start to have up and down,my first experience to a unfamiliar place to stay for months and my very first shortest hair, just because what i had done wrong and when i really change was the age of 22 year old and start to find a stable job and settle myself and make sure no turn back and relationship to the day become my hubby wifey life is not as smooth as what i think,the first time was admitted to hospital due to my first pregnancy,our very first home and my second children...Life gone through half stages and i still had another half to go,i do hope i can hold my hubby's hand together and how hard or how smooth the life is ...Don't know how will i look when i am 50s .. *laugh*

TADA is me i am @ temporary housewife..