♫♩♬my baobei 2nd performance♪♫♩♬

thank baobei teacher for this performance =)

♥ my fav cartoon character ♥

i used to love this cartoon character
when i was in secondary sch..
I used to have many many items in my home sweet home..
Bag, purse wristlet and many many more
now i think i still left the pencil case with cute piyo piyo..
Last time used to have a shop full with piyo piyo @ Suntec Mall
but years goes by i can only see some baby item stuff with piyo piyo on..

Piyopiyo once light up my life
when i see this item
i will be very happy the whole day...

I hope piyo piyo can also brighten up ur life
if u happen to came across my blog..

Recently heard alot of many sad things around me
Just to cheer everyone up =)

Everyday is a better day =D
I am always busy with many things

Never work
bring children to dr appointment
Do my house chores
I had never forgotten anyone
just that
i am scare of going out
cos
i want to save alittle more money to
return my debt and bills..
Even i am never goes out
money still not enough to use..
I will work more harder
to earn more money
I know i can do it..
Just matter about TIME..



♥jiayou everyone ♥

♥ my 2 precious growing up =)♥

Hardly to update to often
cos
my life now is
work=> fetch 2 precious from school=> bath them => dinner together =>take care of them=>
coax them to sleep=>..
I hardly meet any friends,sissy or even gfs..
only some occasion that been told in advanced
i will put my one day off and attend
THAT ALL..

This type of life is going to be the same
till 2 precious
grown up
and
can take care of themselves ..

Time flies
Is november now.
Many public holiday is coming
First is
Christmas
Second
2012 is coming
third
CHINESE NEW YEAR..

I am working everyday is to earn more money
but
money always not enough to use..
This is always i am grumbling
in HERE..
I haven't even clear any of my debt
i trying to pay bit by bit
but
I also not enough not even end of the month..
WHY LIKE THAT

I didn't any how spend
i hope this life dun FOLLOW ME to 2012
i want a independent
$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
life..

Happy weekend to everyone =D

♫♫Boon lay CC open ceremony carnival♫♫

Brought 2 precious to Boon lay cc opening ceremony carnival
in the morning with daddy..

Got games..Balloon,pop corn,ice c-cream for the children

2 ticket for the games..

2 precious balloon from a lovely jie jie..=)

didn't take much picture
was chatting with my gf Delphine =)

and off to boon lay shopping centre for lunch

and
on the way home

me,me,meface with sunscreen only =)
face becoming bigger n bigger
like hamburger lol

going for a diet from tml onward..

♥Happy weekend everyone ♥

♥ ♥ ah zhen & Guoqing wedding dinner♥ ♥

Very long never attend wedding dinner
Today is my bff ah mei 's sister wedding dinner...
attend with joan & anqi..
Prepare and off to meet two of them
and
Ryan came to fetch us..
Laughter on the way to the venue..

♥ sister forever = )♥
although we have seldom meet up
cos busy working and have our own family..
But hope we can meet up often..
No matter what
how far
how busy
no matter where we are
we are forever sister and bff =)

reach there abit early
we went to Starbuck for a chat n a light tea time...
chit chatting while taking photo
and
I- phone-ing..

♥my sister cum bff
ah mei=)

Went to the ladies n take photo again...

♥my sister cum bff ♥
joan
♥my sister cum bff♥
anqi

thank ah zhen & guoqing
for the invitation
Congrates to them
希望他们早生贵子,百年好合。。=)

累的开心=D

Have been working in this company for 1 years plus
have happy moment
also have some unpleasant moment...
no matter what
i love the colleagues around
with laughter and joy..
working is not always enjoying
but going to find a better full time job real soon
now start to searching
with my new resume with the help of my godsis =)
thx her for helping me anyway
i really fortunate to have
wonderful family,relatives n friends..
But life not always up
there always
UP and down..

the 3 of us again =)
we are still the same
2 precious go to the school as usual
i go to work and come back look after them
talk to them
spent time with them =)

Happy weekend to everyone =)
today is 11.11 2011
happy everyday =D

6 things you shouldn’t say to your childless friends

Remember how when you first became a parent and suddenly the world was divided into two: adults with kids and adults without kids? Yeah...us neither. But just to be on the safe side, here are our top 6 things you shouldn’t be saying to your childless friends – if you still want to remain friends.

We remember when we first became parents ourselves. Our carefree days were suddenly taken over by crying babies, soggy diapers, gooey baby food and everything that’s overwhelming about new parenthood.

It’s like an invasion of the body snatchers – only instead of strange looking aliens, it’s babies instead.

So we totally understand that in your new role as parents…you might have become…insensitive to the outside world.You see, there are adults out there who are non-parents and for all you know, they might be trying their hardest to become one of us.

But it is cool, we here at theAsianparent.com have got you covered.

Here is our list of top 6 things you should not be saying to your childless friends…unless you really do not want to be friends with them anymore then you have our permission to use this list for evil.

1. “When will you finally have kids?”

An experience as magical as parenting is one that can not be shared by just telling one person.It is one that needs to be experienced.

So it is only natural that you would want your friends to be experiencing what you are currently going though and it is also only natural that you would be curious on when they will be travelling down this path you have taken. But when you do ask this million dollar question; please be discreet.

This is a sensitive subject and for all you know, your friend might be child-free now because they are either facing infertility, having to deal with a spouse who does not want a kid or having other issues that we dare not begin to discuss.

If you really do need to know, bring it up privately or don’t be nosy nelly at all and wait for them to share with you.

2. “We always wanted to have a family.”

If you somehow, condescendingly use the expression “have a family” to mean “have children,” you inadvertently send a message that people without kids are… family-less.

Family comes in many forms: significant others, parents, siblings, nieces, nephews, cousins, neighbours and even co-workers. After all, you have a kid yourself so we’re pretty sure you have a copy of “Lilo and Stitch” lying around somewhere.

Pop that on and you’ll find that what “family” really means is that… “Nobody gets left behind.”

3. “I only invited other parents.”

Having children is the norm, and people who are childfree can sometimes feel isolated or excluded. Even if you are pretty sure that they do not want to come, you should still invite them to your kids parties – just in case. Sure, there are some people who just don’t like kids and have no desire to spend an afternoon surrounded by them but it is never uncool to be polite.

4. “So why don’t you want kids?”

Don’t ask what they’re going to do if they never have kids. Because unless they have already worked through that process and come out the other side, they may not be sure yet and who are you to question them?

5.” When will you grow up?”

If you had kids when you were on the younger side, you may have transitioned abruptly from staying out bar-hopping to night feedings and Dora the Explorer. Assuming your childless friends are immature and irresponsible is just plain rude. Just because they do not have as much responsibilities as you do, does not mean they are not as mature as you.

6. “You wouldn’t know, you don’t have kids.”

Making the assumption that your childless friends do not what you are going through is very presumptous.It’s true that people do lose interest quite quickly when someone is talking about things they don’t understand.

But if your close friends are childless, don’t discard their opinions or feelings on things related to children…sometimes the best perspectives are the perspectives of someone who is not emotionally or directly related to the kids.

So the next time you have to deal with your friends who are without children, do keep these things in mind so that you won’t end up with one less friend.

Copy from Asianparent.com and share with everyone...

♥ Life to me =D ♥