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Hi, Mommy.

...I'm your baby. You don't know me yet, I'm only a few
weeks old. You're going to find out about me soon, though, I promise.
Let me tell you some things about me. My name is John, and I've got
beautiful brown eyes and black hair. Well, I don't have it yet, but I
will when I'm born. I'm going to be your only child, and you'll call me
your one and only. I'm going to grow up without a daddy mostly, but we
have each other. We'll help each other, and love each other. I want to
be a doctor when I grow up.



You found out about me today, Mommy! You were so excited, you couldn't
wait to tell everyone. All you could do all day was smile, and life was
perfect. You have a beautiful smile, Mommy. It will be the first face I
will see in my life, and it will be the best thing I see in my life. I
know it already.



Today was the day you told Daddy. You were so excited to tell him about
me! ...He wasn't happy, Mommy. He kind of got angry. I don't think that
you noticed, but he did. He started to talk about something called
wedlock, and money, and bills, and stuff I don't think I understand
yet. You were still happy, though, so it was okay. Then he did
something scary, Mommy. He hit you. I could feel you fall backward, and
your hands flying up to protect me. I was okay... but I was very sad
for you. You were crying then, Mommy. That's a sound I don't like. It
doesn't make me feel good. It made me cry, too. He said sorry after,
and he hugged you again. You forgave him, Mommy, but I'm not sure if I
do. It wasn't right. You say he loves you... why would he hurt you? I
don't like it, Mommy.



Finally, you can see me! Your stomach is a little bit bigger, and
you're so proud of me! You went out with your mommy to buy new clothes,
and you were so so so happy. You sing to me, too. You have the most
beautiful voice in the whole wide world. When you sing is when I'm
happiest. And you talk to me, and I feel safe. So safe. You just wait
and see, Mommy. When I am born I will be perfect just for you. I will
make you proud, and I will love you with all of my heart.



I can move my hands and feet now, Mommy. I do it because you put your
hands on your belly to feel me, and I giggle. You giggle, too. I love
you, Mommy.



Daddy came to see you today, Mommy. I got really scared. He was acting
funny and he wasn't talking right. He said he didn't want you. I don't
know why, but that's what he said. And he hit you again. I got angry,
Mommy. When I grow up I promise I won't let you get hurt! I promise to
protect you. Daddy is bad. I don't care if you think that he is a good
person, I think he's bad. But he hit you, and he said he didn't want
us. He doesn't like me. Why doesn't he like me, Mommy?



You didn't talk to me tonight, Mommy. Is everything okay?



It's been three days since you saw Daddy. You haven't talked to me or
touched me or anything since that. Don't you still love me, Mommy? I
still love you. I think you feel sad. The only time I feel you is when
you sleep. You sleep funny, kind of curled up on your side. And you hug
me with your arms, and I feel safe and warm again. Why don't you do
that when you're awake, any more?



I'm 21 weeks old today, Mommy. Aren't you proud of me? We're going
somewhere today, and it's somewhere new. I'm excited. It looks like a
hospital, too. I want to be a doctor when I grow up, Mommy. Did I tell
you that? I hope you're as excited as I am. I can't wait.



...Mommy, I'm getting scared. Your heart is still beating, but I don't
know what you are thinking. The doctor is talking to you. I think
something's going to happen soon. I'm really, really, really scared,
Mommy. Please tell me you love me. Then I will feel safe again. I love
you!



Mommy, what are they doing to me!? It hurts! Please make them stop! It
feels bad! Please, Mommy, please please help me! Make them stop!



Don't worry Mommy, I'm safe. I'm in heaven with the angels now. They
told me what you did, and they said it's called an abortion.



Why, Mommy? Why did you do it? Don't you love me any more? Why did you
get rid of me? I'm really, really, really sorry if I did something
wrong, Mommy. I love you, Mommy! I love you with all of my heart. Why
don't you love me? What did I do to deserve what they did to me? I want
to live, Mommy! Please! It really, really hurts to see you not care
about me, and not talk to me. Didn't I love you enough? Please say
you'll keep me, Mommy! I want to live smile and watch the clouds and
see your face and grow up and be a doctor. I don't want to be here, I
want you to love me again! I'm really really really sorry if I did
something wrong. I love you!





I love you, Mommy.



Every abortion is just…



One more heart that was stopped.

Two more eyes that will never see.

Two more hands that will never touch.

Two more legs that will never run.

One more mouth that will never speak.



If you’re against abortion, reblog.

AMEN!!!

知足常乐，珍惜眼前人

最穷的人并不是口袋里没有金钱，
而是身边连一个关心，爱护自己的人都没有。。
没有幸福，没有快乐的人，
才是真正平穷的人。。
（知足常乐，珍惜眼前人）....

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♥♥Wish my precious can recover soon =)♥♥

Brought precious to see doctor,see the medicine..=(

Food allergy can be very serious
brought precious to clinic 2 times
i hope precious can get well soon...=)

Me & precious

We take bus & MRT to the clinic
and pass my MC to my company....

See my precious leg
i feel so heartpain seeing this...
really pray after this FOOD ALLERGY
we can have healthy and happy everyday =)

Precious was so active in the clinic
say hello to every patient
and
talk to them
and
ask them want biscuit anot..

puppet time =)《我们的全家福》

♥ Our weekend ♥

♥ Our weekend ♥

Morning 2 precious wake up @ 07 30..
make milk for them
and
go prepare the ingredient for
today lunch n dinner..

After that we ate breakfast today..
after that we enjoy ourselves watch tv,playing & take photos..=)

Cabbage,carrot porridge n Minced meat w sliced dry scallop =)

Saturday 17.09.11

鱼炒姜丝和黑酱油

冬瓜汤·@17.09.11

Fried the fish n kanna my wrist

so pain but worth it cos cooking for 2 precious =)冬瓜汤·@17.09.11


♥enjoy our weekend together
it been abit long
never spend time with my 2 precious
Work work work
earn more $$$$$$$$$$$$$$
to clear my everythings..

Aslong as 2 precious and my family and everyone surround me
healthy n happy
and
i can concentrated on my work..=)

pls click on my ads @ the right corner if u happen drop by and read my blog
thank u so much x 100000000000000000000000..

I SO want to watch the Johnny English 2 .........
this week or even next week
i full with work n many things..

你不知道的事

别怕我伤心

thank for the ear
thank for the console
thank for everything
even the shoulder to let me tear

I will be STRONG
dun worry
what happen will always with reason

DUN WORRY NOTHING WILL HAPPEN TO US
WHO DID HE THINK HE IS
THIS IS SINGAPORE
WHAT CAN HE CAPABLE TO DO??

I NOT SAD
I SAD FOR MY 2 PRECIOUS
WHAT THINGS WILL HAPPEN
I WILL STAY BESIDE WITH THEM
I MADE MYSELF CLEAR
I WILL PROTECT THEM
AS A MOTHER..

I DOING IT IS FOR THE SAKE OF MY CHILDREN
I THINK I BEAR IN MY MIND
A LEOPARD WILL NEVER CHANGE HIS SPOT..
I SAYING U
A MAN WHICH SUITABLE STAYING BESIDE HIS PARENT
NOT
A FAMILY WHO WITH CHILDREN...


DUN EVER COME AND TELL ME U WANT TO COME IN TO THIS FAMILY
IF U NOT FIT TO..
FOR MY 2 CHILDREN
WHAT U HAD DONE
EVERYONE IS THE AUDIENCE..

RIP ah leng

人生短短，几十年。。。。

Last few weeks i just saw my godsis n ah leng with my sissy..
But on tuesday night i received a sms from my godsis
Ah leng had passed away...
I really feel so out of sudden
I even thought is a joke..
But when i called my godsis
i hear is voice
i know is not a joke..

Wednesday afternoon went to down with sissy
glad that she accompany me
orelse
mountain tortoise dun even know where is the place..
Went down to pay a respect..
I really dun know how to console people..
I ask godsis to BE STRONG
no matter what she still have me..

Last year not because of them
i might not be here
to updated on the blog..
They care,concern of me and my 2 children..
I feel so sad n things happen to sudden..
Godsis told me: 时间不等人，不要等到人走了，后悔都来不及了。。。
眼泪就掉了，
让我想起我的嬷嬷。。
想起就伤心。。
知道人生就是这样。。
把不开心的留给自己。。

No matter what
ah leng
你要一路走好。。。。。

♥♥For the sake of my lovely children ♥♥

带宝贝去看医生，
可怜的宝贝，发烧和起疱疱。。
不管发生什么事，妈妈会在你们的身边。。
看了好心痛。。
希望宝贝快快好起来。。。

《我们的全家福》
我和宝贝=）
可爱吗。。。？？？最近不是有你的sms,
不是为了两个宝贝，我才不会去想。。
不会想得人，是你
做的多，也是你。。

最好不要在烦我们，
我有我的人生要过，
这个家有你没你，
都是一样，
是以为
两个宝贝许要一个爸爸，
为了他们还是三个人过的会比较好。。
如果想法还是像小孩，
回家跟这自己的父母过一生，
不要害无辜得人。。

最好说到做到。。
走走
记得把你的一切好的坏的都拿走。。。
不要留别人帮你收。。。

A prenuptial agreement needed ???????????????

A prenuptial agreement , also referred to as a prenup, is a legally binding contract that is signed by a woman and man before they get married. The prenup clearly states how any pre-marital, as well as marital property will be divided up, should the marriage end in a divorce. A prenup also spells out how spousal support will be set up.

You should consider a prenuptial agreement if certain circumstances apply. For instance, if you are considerably wealthier than your partner, own your own house or have significant assets, you should consider a prenuptial agreement. If you own part or all of a business or are expecting a large increase in your salary, you should also consider a prenuptial agreement.

When considering a prenuptial agreement, be sure to bring up the topic early in the relationship. Don't wait until right before the wedding to tell your partner you want them to sign a prenuptial agreement.

Be honest and open about why you want your significant other to sign a prenup. It is important that you and your partner are able to agree on the basics of the prenuptial agreement, before bringing it to the lawyers. Make a list of all your assets and talk about who will get what, should the marriage end in divorce.

After you have both agreed to sign the prenup, you should each retain your own lawyer. If you and your significant other were to use the same lawyer, a judge might not enforce the agreement. He or she may say that one of you were not able to get sufficient legal representation.

It is important that you completely make known all of your assets. Any attempt to hide or mislead part of your assets could result in the prenuptial agreement being thrown out of court.

There are other ways a prenup can be thrown out by a judge. If the agreement is too lopsided, a judge may throw it out. A valid prenup must be fair to both spouses and it cannot leave either party penniless.

A prenup does not have any jurisdiction over child support. When signing a prenuptial agreement, you cannot forfeit your rights to child support. In the same respect, you cannot designate a dollar amount that is less than what would be ordered by the courts.

In cases where a prenuptial agreement is more generous than a will, a will does not supersede the Prenup. In other words, you cannot allot a lesser amount in your will, than that stated in the prenuptial agreement. However, you can leave more money in the will, than originally stated in the prenup.

A clause can be added to the prenuptial agreement, stating that it will expire after a designated period of time. This is referred to as 'Sunset Provisions'. In some states, if the couple does not opt to renew the prenuptial agreement, it will automatically expire after a certain number of years. In some states, a prenuptial agreement is no longer valid after a child is born.

Prenuptial agreements can be used to safeguard your assets. Before entering into one, be sure you have a full understanding of how they work.

'中秋节快乐 =)" @ 2011

2011 中秋节

We have a very different Mid autumn festival..
(Almost ruin by this man who always really know how to choose the timings
by keep sms-ing me..)
STOP ALL THIS NONSENSE.
BY USING SMS SHOW UR SINCERITY

"words mean nothing if no action has been done"

We ate alot of different kind of mooncake...=)
this year 2 precious have more than 2 lanterns each..
The mooncake from my nice & lovely bffs....
The lanterns are from my parent and Ryan & ah mei...

We enjoy our mid autumn festival =)

Sunday finish work,go jp find my bff ..

Rushed home and saw my 2 precious playing with my parent..
I really love this type of life..
Simple and so real life
No trouble no problem=)

Last few week she & my bff bought us a tin of mooncake..
Thank Ryan and AH mei bought my 2 precious lantern each..
If next year every thing go smoothly
i will wanted to do something for my family,my bff and relatives..
I am really grateful what they had done for US..



Yesterday 2 pecious brought lantern to school..
it was mid autumn festival
i really love their school
alway organised excursion
n
every festival also celebrate with the children..

My 2 precious loved their school also...

They get alot improvement on their school
my precious start to talk afew words a time
my baobei from ABC now know how to write A-Z ..

They can express their happiest using expression in the photo..=)


In the evening time finish work go bring my 2 precious back home..
Bath them feed them and than go down void deck enjoying the
Mid AUTUMN festival
with their friends =)

Rain halfway so invited their friends came up to our house to continue
playing..
my 2 precious really enjoy the days
came back and doze to sleep
zzzzzzz..

We are always blessed with care n concern..
Why cannot u just go off our lives
and stop
pestering my hp with ur idiots sms...

This family is not u want than u can do any thing without thinking of anyone feeling alright
despite there's people help u to say nice word..
U still a something in the past
but
dun just bring up the memories to me
i dun want anymore nightmare..

One of my bff told me
I can forgive mine
why cannot u ..

Dun wan to say so much here..
I just want my life
like now..